We Need Retreats

On Friday I was writing a talk that I had to give at a retreat the next day.  I was asked to give a reflection for Saturday’s retreat back in February.  Why did I wait until the last minute to write the talk?  There is no real reason I can think of besides the busyness of daily life (and procrastination.)  It is exactly this reason that retreats are so important.  I believe that all Catholics should take time to attend retreats.  They are the perfect way to get away from hectic and often full schedules to rest, be inspired, discuss our faith with others, and find peace. 

Retreats are often experiences that we do not really realize how much we need until we are there in the middle of them or once they are over.  It had been over a year since the last retreat I had been on.  Being able to go to the TEC Rejoice retreat was a true gift.  Being able to be in the presence of other Catholics, discussing faith, hearing reflections, praying together, and escaping the world, even if only for a day, was a time of refreshment and a time to recharge.  This is what we all need, especially now more than ever.

I believe retreats are vital for our spiritual health and faith.  They are a time of nourishment and a way to dive deeper into our relationship with Jesus.  Scripture often talks about the importance of rest.  In Matthew 11:28, Jesus says, “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest.”  Retreats are an opportunity to just be in the presence of Jesus and let Him refresh your soul.  Unlike the expectations the world places on us in our daily lives, being at retreats, there are no real expectations but to just be still and rest.  Through dedicated time for prayer, reflection, and small-group discussions, we can more clearly hear God.

Of course, we can encounter Christ outside of retreats.  However, we are called to set aside time for prayer and contemplation so we can be renewed and strengthened.  Even Jesus took time to step away from the world at times.  In addition, retreats provide an opportunity to build community with others who care about their faith.  Finding time to be around people who share our faith is so important.  We need a faith community to pray with and for us, and encourage and help us along the way.  It is these relationships that are centered on Christ that are life-changing.  The graces that come from retreats are countless.

​For many Catholics, their retreat participation starts and ends with their Confirmation retreat.  While we cannot force people to go on a retreat, we can be persistent in inviting others.  We can help people seek out different opportunities.  My prayer is that all Catholics would open up their hearts and consider attending a retreat.  If you are reading this, know that God has so much to offer you and going on a retreat might just be exactly what you need to receive what He wants to give you.